I Am Learning to Lovingly Detach
Updated: Jan 27, 2023

I release all expectations and attachments
to my preconceived beliefs about probable outcomes.
I stay in the truth of my immediate experience,
and release all of my expectations/interpretations of what others may think.
I know I Am provided for in this earth realm from my first breath until my last.
God is in charge, not me.
I breathe into trusting the universal plan.
I stay in my own lane.
I submit to God’s will,
while staying focused on my internal process
of radical, loving self-transformation.
For this is my sacred promise
since the conception of my human soul:
I will create
true harmony, love, forgiveness, and peace
from within
and for me:
to then pour purely
into the collective cups of our shared humanity.
From our perceived individual to our collective transcendence,
So It Is!
Amen.
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