I acknowledge my distrust for men
that I have inherited through unhealed family beliefs
and perpetuated through my own experiences and beliefs.
I seek to own and release my pattern
to shrink, to judge and to prove injustices
by maintaining a helpless victim role.
I thought I was a strong woman who didn’t need men.
I can now see my part of rigid fear and unforgiveness,
excuses and lack of healthy expectations,
and repetitive hurtful dances of unfulfillment.
I DECLARE:
I challenge and release the generational distortions which have allowed toxic masculinity to go unchecked.
I speak truth to the patterns and traumas of the past and the present.
I open my heart, and pray for others to open theirs, to a new and better Way.
I call out the overt injustices and violations.
I shine a light into the shadows of covert suppression, oppression and microaggressions.
I speak of this because of love for myself, my past and future family and our unlived potential.
I steadfastly hold the dream for our mutual healing.
I acknowledge my traumas,
I allow raw expression of my feelings, and needs for my healing.
I activate a healing team for myself, in my inner sanctum and surrounding me.
I learn to trust what healthy relationships look like and feel like.
I breathe into my worthiness and responsibility to now set the tone
for how I Am treated,
by myself and by all others.
I willfully and completely release the spell of trauma
which keep me broken, small and a victim.
I willfully replace my hurt and pain
with abundant self-compassion and self-love.
I willfully replace my fear
with a deep trust of the Divine Masculine’s yearning to birth a new legacy.
I willfully replace my judgment
with forgiveness of myself, others and our miscreated patterns.
I willfully replace my complacence/victimhood
with speaking my truth and standing in my power.
I willfully replace my condemnations
by speaking respectful expectations into my relationships.
I willfully replace my broken narrative
with an unfolding healed narrative of mutual tenderness, authentic vulnerability,
brave truths, radical responsibility, and generous love.
Herein, I step boldly and confidently into my power, my convictions, my love, the healed patterns.
I now give my forgiveness
that I withheld from the men in my life,
forgiving them
when they did not know better.
I now give my love,
always expecting respect, kindness and love
to be mutually nurtured and sustained.
I loving challenge all my relations
to join me in integrity and reconciliation,
accepting nothing less than the beauty of our potential.
I release now my boundless reserves
of love and security,
for myself
so I can now give myself in full!
I am the unstoppable force of creative change.
I AM Woman Divine.
I AM the essence and purity
of evolving transformative love.
I AM the divine song freed from my soul.
I joyously Hum in the resonant vibrations
of the reign of Divine Love Actualized.
Amen,
and so it is!
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